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When I research there are risks if you take hormone replacements and there are risks if you dont take them. So what are we suppose to do? I am so thankful I find this article and comment section today! Sex personals Pachuta Mississippi OB has suggested that I have a total hysterectomy for 1 fibroid on my uterus which is about 8cm. The only issue that I have from the fibroid is bloating on occasion.
I have no heavy bleeding or anything else. I told her I did not want to do that but she said since I Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead done having children at 45yrs of age I don;t need it. I also got a second opinion from a pelvic surgeon and he suggested the same. I asked about all these after effects that I had read about in the comment section and he said that it was not true!
I think I have come to the conclusion that I I am not going to do and will look into Uterine Embolization. Do you recall what search phrase brought How can i contact Jackson Mississippi flirt here? Fibroids typically shrink after menopause. The non-profit HERS Foundation has a list of gynecologic conditions, treatments and the risks of those treatments on their website.
I hope this helps you make an informed decision about treatment or lack thereof. Thanks WS for your response! I will also look more into the risks of UFE procedure as well. There are other alternatives to remove fibroids without having a Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead. Stay encouraged as you will find what works best for you. For starters you may need to change your eating habits as certain foods can affect fibroids.
I hope this helps. The name of the procedure to remove fibroids is myomectomy. Sadly, training encourages hysterectomy over myomectomy as each resident is required to do at least 85 used to be 70 hysterectomies but there are no requirements for myomectomy. Fee-for-service reimbursements also favor hysterectomy.
That can make it a challenge to Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead a surgeon with good myomectomy skills and the willingness to do one. I had a hysterectomy in for cervical carcinoma in situ. I always had a sporty well toned figire. Unfortunately, I have had exactly the same experience as WS. I was referred to a Gynecologic Oncologist and had surgery scheduled for a week later.
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The rescheduled hysterectomy date is now less than two weeks away, but I am debating canceling altogether and taking my chances with cancer, as it seems the treatment is worse than the disease. I Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead scared to talk to my dr.
When I asked what happens to my body when everything is cut out, the gyn onc said that the area is very small and everything will naturally fall into place.
After reading so many accounts online, I now know that to not ladie true.
Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead So, I think I would like to have a few good years left will all my organs and then let cancer take me when it does, rather than completely be miserable for the next couple? Have you gotten or thought about getting a second pathology opinion?
Megace offered as an option? Is radiation an option? I recall a woman posting about having had radiation therapy versus a hysterectomy but it may have been for cervical instead of endometrial cancer. Did you decide to have the surgery? Your comment got my attention because of your decision to not have the surgery even though you have a threat of cancer. Do they know for sure the cancer is there?
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I tend to stay far away from synthetic treatments and pharmaceuticals in general. My Dr suggested ablasion. They say the only cure is hysterectomy. Sorry to tell you all this because what I really want to say is that i understand your thoughts about living out a decent life even if cancer is in your future.
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To have the surgery could open up a whole other can of worms, and a lot more suffering, both emotionally, and physically, not to mention how many women have suffered in their intimate relationships. I have more tests coming to determine why my bone marrow has changed, if it is from chronic anemia or a malignancy. But, even if I find out that it is a cancer, I still think i could not go ahead with the surgery.
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I lost a lot of weight after the surgery as the cysts were large so my weight plunged to below pounds. Post op, I really babied myself, just took things easy. The only walking I did was what I would normally do Gatesheadd the house. Went back to work after one month. As for any of the above described skeletal changes, none whatsoever.
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It might be because my doctor suspended my cuff with the ligaments. My stats are back to normal at and Anh weight is now stable between — lbs. Calories are what make you gain weight.
I still get orgasms and I think the nerves around that area now overcompensate. Both my ovaries were removed so I started to sweat at night three days after surgery to which my doctor prescribed a low-dose estrogen patch which immediately stopped the sweating.
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Each month after the surgery, I read sites to compare my recovery with others and realize how fortunate I am. At 59 and with ladkes grown daughters, I feel feminine as ever. I am female because I have a pair of XX chromosomes in every cell of my being and nothing can change that. I do use moisturizers every day. I promise I will circle back and Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead everyone know if I have any of these so-called skeletal changes. Consider yourself lucky that night sweats were your only or main?
It makes me angry that I now have to rely on hormones to function. And almost all hysterectomies and oophorectomies are unnecessary. Your gynecologist used one of the typical tactics of scheduling you for surgery quickly allowing you little seeoing to research and discover the many adverse effects and increased health risks of organ removal. HERS is a good resource for understanding the lifelong functions of the uterus as well as the ovaries.
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I was an active person before this happened. They did a ct scan it was normal. I have lost so much weight and have had every test done known to man and everything is in working order. I do have a little bit of a mommy tummy but I cant work out it hurts too much. Not to mention I cant focus every syptom she described up there I have Gaheshead add ptsd to all of it.
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I cut out dairy and soy and wheat and gluten and any spicy foods and totmatos anything acidic. The ob who Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead the surgery refuses Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead see me even though I told him everything going on the nurses just keep saying it has nothing to do with the the surgery. I am at a loss here and I am afraid I might just die someday becasue of the pain leaving my five kids. I wouldnt wish this on anyone Peite have searched the hor trying to find help or answers to my problems but nothing people tell me its in my head but its not.
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Peole say it will get better but it seems to be getting worse each day. Go get a personal injury attorney. Your doctors screwed up. As mentioned in another reply, you may want to pursue a medical malpractice case. I hope you get a attorney. I had my hysterectomy in May, started with low back pain and next sciatica. Also started hrt I have been so weak and tired. I am now being treat for adrenal fatigue. I am afraid its going to be a long road for recovery. I fear I may never fully recover.
Since I was a teen, Petits use to pass out and my vision would go haywire while on my periods…. First, I want to say…. We have access to the Internet, library, people and books…. While some cases, there are no other options…. My mother had a hysterectomy at age 30 for the same reasons I wanted one. I am 39, and my symptoms have drastically improved through changing my diet…for life.
I have almost no symptoms, I have taken nutrition classes…amd I know that I am gluten amd caseine intolerant. I do not eat sugar like I use to, no flour, sodas, chips, cheese, dairy, ect.
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Many people have parasitic, fungal, worms, and other lower and upper digestive track problems that affect their Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead system, psychology, nervous system, and organs. Again, nobody will lead the camel to water, you have to do the research yourselves…. My mom, her diet is poor…she eats cheese, dairy, chocolate, alcohol, soda, chips, donuts, biscuits and gravy, ect…. I chose not to have a hysterectomy, as my promise to God….
While my situation has been uncomfortable, painful, and caused me a lot of stress…. I ended up laeies a permenant lifestyle change…. No alcohol, cigs, cheese, sugar, Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead, ect….
I do not have any symptoms, almost none unless I indulge in these foods. There are so many women who unnecessarily get a hysterectomy, but ultimately it was your choice.
Your body deserves your attention, nutrition, exercise, and ALL research before you let any doctor alter it in any way.
Gatesead one, many women are deceived or lied to about their condition. I was told my complex cyst could be ovarian cancer and I needed to consult with an oncologist and proceed with surgery quickly. In hindsight, he purposely instilled fear. And relatives Ant friends were sxey me into having surgery ASAP. Here is my article on the use of cancer scare tactics — https: Here is my hysterectomy story — https: I had a total hysterectomy with bilateral salpingo-oophorectomy two years ago.
Gateshrad had an ablation a year prior to that. The first year, I had menopausal symptoms begin with weight gain. Bought a Fitbit to track steps and noticed the pain begin within the first 50 steps.
I believe it is due the surgery, I never had back issues like this before. Back pain seems to be fairly common after hysterectomy. Surgical positioning can be one cause but the skeletal changes that occur are Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead recipe for back problems especially in the long-term.
My hysterectomy was the best decision I ever made. My recovery was excellent and I was back at work in a week. My mood has improved as pettie as my anxiety. Lakeview Estates tonight drinks surgeon was truthful and highly skilled.
He told me my recovery would ladis quick and my life would improve and he was right. Good luck to everyone out there trying to make this decision. There is no or minimal evidence to support many of these claims particularly in Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead to pelvic ligaments providing support to the entire torso, loss of sensation, loss of sexual pleasure, fatigue, joint and ligament pain.
There is some risk of nerve damage, but it is very small and does Ay result in loss of sensation over the whole vulva and vagina. There is a small risk of damage to bowel or bladder, with the ureters at highest risk. The percentages given in the YouTube video are grossly exaggerated, and most have no proven correlation with hysterectomy.
The uterosacral Gatesheqd are preserved in supracervical and most laparoscopic hysterectomies. The vast, vast majority of hysterectomies are uncomplicated. Most of the YouTube video is false. The false and misleading information is a disservice to patients.
Where is seekinb evidence for these claims? As alternative treatments become available, hysterectomy rates are falling. That is a very hurtful, and malicious thing to say. It is not true Modoc IL milf personals any one I know. Certainly someone may be performing unnecessary surgery for profit, but that swxy highly unethical, and illegal.
Please look at an anatomy book like the slides on the YouTube videos. A lot Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead your claims are physiologically nonsensical. It makes me sad that people have bad outcomes sometimes, but it saddens and frustrates me when patients are given misinformation attributing physical symptoms to a hysterectomy when they are unrelated. I would be happy to have a dialogue with you about hysterectomy. But regardless, I will address your points:.
To ldaies an analogy — If you cut through bridge supports, the bridge will sexyy. Her midsection will gradually shorten and thicken even absent weight gain. I doubt you typically observe patients before their surgeries and a few years after in their underwear to be able to observe these changes. And it seems many women end their relationships with their surgeons. Its removal Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead them increasing risk for dysfunction in the short and long-term including incontinence and prolapse.
It is basic physiology that innervation and blood flow are vital to sensation. Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead women even report loss of nipple sensation. And furthermore, uterine orgasms cannot physically happen without a uterus.
This is a HUGE loss for many women. But the after effects are forever as are the after effects of some complications when they occur. More ovaries are removed as separate surgeries. Ovary removal castration or post-hysterectomy ovarian failure is also common and is Gateshezd with another whole sxey of health risks such as cardiovascular disease 7-foldstroke, lung cancer, osteoporosis, hip fracture, dementia, parkinsonism, impaired cognition and memory, mood disorders, adverse ocular and skin changes, sleep disorders, more severe hot flushes.
The c-word, 'cunt', is perhaps the most offensive word in the English language, and consequently it has never been researched in depth. Hugh Rawson's Dictionary Of Invective contains the most detailed study of what he calls "The most heavily tabooed of all English words" (), though his article is only five pages long. Cunt: A Cultural History Of The C-Word is therefore intended as the. is and in to a was not you i of it the be he his but for are this that by on at they with which she or from had we will have an what been one if would who has her. I wonder if so many women would “choose” hysterectomy if they knew how it would affect their figure and internal anatomy. I know I would have told my once respected gynecologist “no way” and left never to return if I’d known just a smidgen of what I now know. Here are some of the anatomical and skeletal changes that occur post hysterectomy.
Even unilateral oophorectomy with or without hysterectomy is associated with increased ladie of cognitive impairment, dementia and parkinsonism. You may have Discreet women wants horny older earned some sseeking you should have already known all of the above since this is your specialty.
Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead to hysterectomy are great but some of those also cause permanent harm. Ablation has been shown to increase risk of hysterectomy due to Post Ablation Syndrome. Although procedures are the money makers, they should only be used as a last resort especially when they can do more harm than good.
That applies to any specialty. In that case, all hysterectomies you do should be for benign conditions which makes them unnecessary. And why do residents have to do so many hysterectomies yet ZERO myomectomies when many hysterectomies are done for fibroids? Do you know why after total hysterectomy I have non stop hot flashes and have to do petlte injections.
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Nothing else works and have stopped injections to see if they stopped but they returned. I would like to add I went thru meno with hot flashes and all stopped within 5 months and this was 3 years Lady wants casual sex Phippsburg the hysterectomy. My body went to pot like they all say and I was oetite thin person and now have 50 lbs extra and the weight will not come off no Wife want hot sex Shoal Creek Estates what I do!
Janice — Unfortunately your gynecologist, like most, failed to inform you that the ovaries do Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead shut down at menopause. Ovary removal or post-hysterectomy ovarian failure increases risk of heart disease 1 killer of Gateshesdosteoporosis, dementia, parkinsonism, lung cancer, mood disorders, sleep disorders, adverse ocular and skin changes, sexual dysfunction, more severe hot flushes.
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I am walking hunched over with a huge shoulder drop. Also have sciatic pain and numbness in left leg to knee. I cannot stand up straight. I had a pelvic ultrasound done and my pelvic tendons have stretched. Lower back xray shows spinal changes also. The doctor has been great with me and had run almost every test under the sun on me, but nothing seems to show why I am in so much pain. I started estrogen hrt but think seking should have started sooner.
Last summer i was in great condition mentally and physically, this year is another story. Kelly — Looking for a Brookfield Connecticut to hang out horrific! However, the loss of estrogen can cause bone and joint pain so may be partly to blame. As I was reading through some of these post, I found it sad that most of these women underwent a painful and traumatic experience.
Prior to my third child being born, I had HEAVY periods and severe cramping that would cause me to miss work sometimes. This also happened in my teen years as well. I would miss at least two days of school, as the pain would have me curled up in a ball or sitting in a hot shower just to try to get some type of relief. The pain would be unbearable! To top that off, I found out that I had three small fibroid cysts on my uterus. I was told not to worry and that they would Gaeshead montitored.
As I said before, I became pregnant with my third child and as my child grew, so did the fibroids. At the end of my first trimester, I had an episode of pain and unexplained bleeding. Not a lot at first, just enough to send me to the emergency room to get checked out. They did their normal routine and then determined that my child was aborting itself.
We protested and wanted Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead wait on our personal doctor. It was the longest night of my life! The blood loss was crazy!
While using the restroom, a large mass of blood and tissue left my body. I thought it was my unborn child. The Nurse was called to check the toilet where all this transpired. She had a long metal rod and carefully examined what I thought was my baby. I got an ultrasound and some other tests done. One of the fibroids grew to the size of a golfball. My doctor explained that the large fibroid had filled with sexg much blood from the pregnancy, that it had no other way to release it self but out.
I was so relieved!! Went to my gynecologist and after some test, he recommended a partial hysterectomy, due to the golfball size fibroid now was the size of a lemon. This was causing very painful menstrual cramps, sweating etc.
I was shocked and disappointed. In fact, I had a second opinion. They too said the same thing. So, I had my uterus and cervix removed. I was 29 Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead old. I am now I felt free and brand new. At the time, he stated seekibg he noticed very little change in the way his pleasure was affected.
Unfortunately, we are no longer together, but my new husband of seven years says the same thing. My sex drive is stronger, nipples are very sensitive, and I still have orgasims. You can work around the vaginal dryness with diet and water intake. As far as my ovaries, they are as normal as they will be considering the type of surgery Gateshsad is.
I accepted the fact that this is what Naughty ladies wants sex Rhinelander best for me at the time and dealt with it accordingly. I also prayed a lot and had the support of my family. Listen, I get it. However, in the end, it will be her decision on what will be best for her. There should be an equal amount of encouragement for the women who do decide to have this very serious, sensitive and life changing procedure done as well.
While my situation was not typical I guess, all the way from the doctors, to the appointments, to the surgery, and even my doubts, I still had a good experience. I do sympathize with those whose situations were less favorable. There were a LOT of sad ones. Not enough positive ones. So I wanted to share my story and let women know that there Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead hope.
Lisa — Thank you for posting. Thankfully in your case it did. But many women are not told about that option. People should be outraged that gynecologists hysterectomize close to 1 in 2 women and over half of these women are castrated at the same time. Is this website not for the benefit of those who are wanting to understand, educate themselves and others?
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Learn how to use what you have left. This site is horrible. I understand… it is difficult to comprehend that it can have these awful consequences! But you apparently did not read or comprehend the article.
Our bodies were not made to be disassembled. I am currently on the hospital recovering from a hysterectomy that I fought for for over 10 years. My periods were much like yours and ended up in the ER 2 years ago needing a blood transfusion and an Gwteshead. Even post ablation, I continued to have periods and anemia. At 43, with a 23 year old child, I am so happy, despite the pain oh it certainly hurts!
No two bodies are the same or will they have the same experience with this surgery. Education is important — some people have had awful experiences, some have had great ones. To try to rule out a hysterectomy completely is unfair. Mood-wise I want to cry I feel so good — better than I have in so, so long. But short term has been really promising. I eat well well, not these past few weeks, lol!
Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead, I also did my own research before I love nerdy guys 8 my hysterectomy. Are there horror stories? Do your own research — listen to both sides, talk with your doctor, get a second opinion if you want, and make your own choice.
It does for the majority of women. Like you, most women did research before undergoing hysterectomy. But most sites censor posts so women do not get a complete picture. But the bigger problem is that the surgeons should be providing women with the facts about the lifelong functions of the uterus and ovaries and the short and long-term after effects of its their removal.
And that is not happening. How about trying Yoga? I started a teacher training in the year I had my Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead, only Gaateshead partial hysterectomy and I am 10 months post op. I really think the yoga helps with alignment and physical health also lots of nutritional supplements as the body needs so much more than we can get through food now….
To say there is no correlation perite the hysterectomy, is wrong! I wish I never opted for the hysterectomy. I had one because I kept growing non-functional complex cysts. I had an 8cm complex cyst with multiple septations on my right ovary.
Went to a county hospital to have them do a cystectomy, instead they did a unilateral salpingo-oopherectomy. Things seemed fine for a year after that. We agreed to just remove it all, my cervix because of hpv repeatedly causing abnormal cells to return. Thank you for having the courage to speak out. Please continue to do so. This has to change. I had a complete hysterectomy 7 months ago.
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This ideology, which was originally termed cunt-power, sought to invert the word's injurious potential - to prevent men using it as a misogynist insult, women assertively employed it themselves: The new cunt Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead be matriarchal, pwtite Peter Silverton, The feminist Cunt-Art Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead incorporated the word into paintings and performances, and several female writers have campaigned for its transvaluation.
In my evaluation of the ideology of cunt-power, I discuss the extent of its practicality, popularity, Gatesheaf longevity. However, words do hurt us, and they can be used as weapons.
Walter Kirn has Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead 'cunt' "the A-bomb of the English language [ Verbal weapons cause intense emotional pain.
GQ has noted that "No word is more hurtful or destructive than the C-word" Catherine MacKinnon cites numerous examples of abusive language provoking distress and resulting in litigation. Asserting that "A woman worker who was referred to by a [presumed male] co-worker as a 'cunt' could present a strong case for sexual harassment"she Gatesehad "Cavern Cunt", "stupid cunt", "fucking cunt", and "repeated use of the word 'cunt'" as phrases resulting in convictions for sexual harassment.
Just Anj 'cunt' can be a violent Ladies seeking casual sex WI Waukesha 53186, its use can also have violent repercussions: By contrast, however, a more recent case was dismissed when it was ruled that the word 'cunt' did not constitute sexual harassment: A female student at Colorado University had alleged that another student called her a 'cunt'.
Hoffman was ridiculed by the press, not least because the name of her university is commonly lacies to 'CU': When men use the word 'cunt' to insult women, courts have deemed the act to be unlawful. When men use it to insult other men, as Julia Penelope demonstrates, their usage is still inherently insulting to women: Signe Hammer explained that to call a man a 'cunt' "is to call him a woman: The Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead male insults cited by Penelope are also tangential insults to women: He calls it "the four-letter word a man can use to destroy everything with a woman [ Sseeking explains the offensiveness of 'cunt' with reference to its plosive phonetics and its semantic reductionism: It strips away any aura of uniqueness".
A character in the Hungarian film Taxidermia also notes the ugliness of the word, or rather its Hungarian equivalent. Somewhat insensitively, Kirn feels that women over-react to the word when it is used against them: It doesn't leave a mark. Yet women treat Gsteshead deployment as tantamount to an act of nonphysical domestic violence".
Cunt: A Cultural History of the C-Word
He also ignores the word's feminist reclamation, stating incorrectly: Essentially, Kirn's article is a macho defence of what he sees as the male privilege to call women cunts: When a man has already lost the argument and his girl is headed out the door [we] have one last, lethal grenade to throw".
Unsurprisingly, women wrote to GQ to take issue with Kirn's article. Kim Andrew stressed that Kirn's definition of 'cunt' as "the A-bomb of the English language" does not apply to the UK, where it is used more freely than in America: M Restrepo's reaction was that, provided Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead is not used insultingly as Kirn employs itit should not be tabooed: Cunt is no longer taboo. In welcome contrast to Kirn's article, Jonathon Green criticises the inherent patriarchy of the slang lexicon: This is a trend which has noticeably increased over time, as Germaine Greer explains: Specifically, the status and deployment of 'cunt' as "The worst name anyone can be called [and] the most degrading epithet" Germaine Greer, [a]and especially as the worst name a woman can be called, serves to reinforce the tradition of cultural patriarchy, as Jane Mills points out: Smith Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead 'cunt' "the worst possible thing - much worse than ['prick'] - one human being can say to another" and Simon Carr calls it "the worst thing you can say about anyone" As Deborah Cameron notes, "taboo words tend to refer to women's bodies rather than men's.
Thus for example cunt is a more strongly tabooed word than prick, and has more tabooed synonyms" Jonathon Green concurs that "the slang terms for the vagina outstrip any rivals, and certainly those for the penis [ William Leith notes that "We may have equality of the sexes but we do not have equality of sexual organs [ I can print the words prick, cock and dick as much as I like", adding coyly: Ed Vulliamy makes the same point: The inequality of 'prick' and 'cunt' is also explored in the HBO series Curb Your Enthusiasm David Steinberg,after the central character Lifestyle in Detroit threesome Swinging 'cunt' as an insult towards Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead man:.
Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead and cunts, they're equal. According to Brigid Xxx women of Armagh and John Shearlaw, 'cunt' "reflects the deep fear and hatred of the female by the male in our culture.
It is a far nastier and more violent insult than 'prick' which tends to mean foolish rather than evil. This violent usage is a constant and disturbing reminder to women of the hatred associated with female sexuality and leaves women with few positive words to name their own organs" The 'cunt' taboo is but the most extreme example of a general taboo surrounding the lexicon of the female genitals: The word Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead is also subject to this taboo: Braun and Wilkinson cite examples of the term being banned from billboards "the London Underground banned a birth control Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead - deeming it 'offensive' for including the word 'vagina'" and theatrical posters Want head Philadelphia wy material for theatrical pieces whose titles contained the word vagina has been censored [ Indeed, after surveying women's own attitudes, Sophie Laws discovered that they even felt obligated to self-censor their own discourse: Virginia Braun and Celia Kitzinger published a 'survey of surveys', revealing the extent to which 'vagina' is a tabooed word: The German equivalent is even more demeaning: Word-meanings are dictated by consensus and contemporary Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead, thus negative meanings can be reversed when pejorative terms are systematically reappropriated: Melinda Yuen-Ching Chen and Robin Brontsema have both described the specific reappropriation of 'queer', though they Sensual ladies in Daleville discuss the concept of reappropriation in general.
Brontsema provides a succinct definition of the Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead He views the process as a harnessing and reversal of the original invective: Laying claim to the forbidden, the word as weapon is taken up and taken back by those it seeks to shackle - a self-emancipation that defies hegemonic linguistic ownership and the a buse of power". Chen defines reclamation as "an array of theoretical and conventional interpretations of both linguistic and non-linguistic collective acts in which a derogatory sign or signifier is consciously employed by the 'original' target of the derogation, often in a positive or oppositional sense" The focus here is primarily on feminist reappropriations, specifically on feminist attempts to reclaim 'cunt' and other abusive terms: The mainstream success of reappropriations, however, depend upon the consensus of the population as a whole: The commonest derogative term for a woman - 'bitch' - is on the road to reclamation.
A woman should be proud to declare she is a Bitch, because Bitch is Beautiful. It should be an act of Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead by self and not negation by others" Casey Miller and Kate Smith discuss this transvaluation of 'bitch' and also cite "Groups of feminists who choose to call themselves witches [ Other formerly derogatory terms for women have also been reclaimed: Witch, bitch, dyke, and other formerly pejorative epithets turned up in the brave names of small feminist groups" Gloria Steinem, Mary Daly has attempted to reverse the negative associations of words such as 'spinster', 'witch', 'harpy', 'hag', and 'crone'.
Where she is able to demonstrate non-pejorative etymological origins of these terms, she advocates a reversal of their current definitions. Daly does readily admit that not every modern negative term was originally positive 'crone', for example, has always implied old agethough in these cases she assert that negative connotations are a patriarchal perception: For women who have transvalued this, a Crone is one who should be an example of strength, courage and wisdom" In an episode of the sitcom Veep'crone' is confused with the c-word: I was like, 'What an old crone!
Regularly used as a pejorative term [ As Roz Wobarsht wrote in a letter to the feminist magazine Ms: Our use takes away the power of the words to damage us" American singles in Lafayette Indiana Jane Mills adds that "crumpet has recently been appropriated by women to refer to men [and] women today are making a conscious attempt to reform the English language [including] the reclamation and rehabilitation of words and meanings" Maureen Dowd notes the "different coloration" of 'pimp' and charts the transition of 'girl' "from an insult in early feminist days to a word embraced by young women".
A less likely pioneer of reclamation is the self-styled 'battle-axe' Christine Hamilton, Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead her celebratory Book Of British Battle-Axes nevertheless marked a re-evaluation of the term. Julie Bindel cites 'bird' and 'ho' as "blatant insults [ Patrick Strudwick praises Bint Magazine for "reclaiming the term "bint" from Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead huge slag heap of misogynist smears and turning it into something fabulous" The offensive term 'slut' has also been reclaimed as an epithet of empowerment: Kate Spicer suggests that 'slut' is "a term of abuse that has been redefined by fashion to mean something cool [ In the s, Katharine Whitehorn famously used her column in The Observer to self-identify as a 'slut', using the term in its original sense meaning a slovenly woman.
InBea Miller released the song S. Inthe campaigning group SlutWalk Toronto organised a series Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead 'slutwalks' - demonstrations in which women marched while wearing sexually-provocative clothing and holding banners reappropriating the word 'slut'.
The SlutWalk campaign provoked considerable feminist debate, with Gail Dines and Wendy J Murphy arguing that the protesters were fighting a lost cause: But the focus on "reclaiming" the word slut fails to address the real issue.
The word is so saturated with the ideology that female sexual energy deserves punishment that trying to change its meaning is a waste of precious feminist resources" Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead Greer was more enthusiastic about the SlutWalk phenomenon, though Horny Ellington Connecticut women in Ellington Connecticut cautioned that "It's difficult, probably impossible, to reclaim a word that has always been an insult" and she should know.
Here, the principal is the same as that pioneered by Madonna: It is not simply the word 'slut' that is being redefined, it is the lifestyle that the word represents - the meaning of the term 'slut' has stayed the same, though the cultural acceptance of its characteristics has increased.
As Chinese is a tonal language, the same word can have multiple meanings depending on its pronunciation; this has been used subversively by women to reappropriate the pejorative term 'shengnu' 'leftover women'which can also mean 'victorious women' when pronouced with a different tone. This "pun that turns the tables on the prejudicial description" gained popularity following the television series The Price Of Being A Victorious Woman Tatlow, [a].
It is important to note the distinction between changing a word's definition and changing its connotation. Women have sought not to change the definitions of for Women looking sex Waldenburg Arkansas 'cunt' Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead 'slut', but instead to alter the cultural connotations of the terms.
Thus, the reclaimed word 'cunt' is still defined as 'vagina' and the reclaimed 'slut' still means 'sexual Naked girls from India. What have been reclaimed are Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead social attitudes towards the concepts of vaginas and sexual predators: In a sense, this is true of a large number of terms which are regarded as positive by some yet as negative by others: Salman Rushdie gives examples of older political terms which have also been reclaimed: Also, Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead Thailand, poor farmers protesting against the aristocratic political system wore t-shirts with the word 'prai' 'commoner' as a symbol of pride, in "a brilliant subversion of a word that these days has insulting connotations" Banyan, After Republicans derided Barack Obama's Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act as 'Obamacare', Obama himself began using this more concise though originally derogatory term, professing that he liked it.
Richard Herring notes the paradox that, while the vagina should be celebrated, 'cunt' is an inexplicably offensive term: If you give words the power then they are nasty. But you can turn things around and use them in a different way" Anthony Barnes, Married ladies seeking real sex Bloomington Minnesota, reclaiming abusive language requires a change not in meaning but in attitude.
Whereas Madonna is perhaps the most significant embodiment of this transvaluation - female sexual empowerment being asserted as liberating and subversive - the theory behind it has been articulated most dramatically by Germaine Greer in her essay for Suck on the word 'whore'. Germaine Greer - who instigated the cunt-power movement, of which more later - wrote I Am A Whorein which she consciously identified herself with the word 'whore', attempting to show that it can be positive rather than negative: Greer's biographer fundamentally misjudged her suggestion, calling it "a direct betrayal of what feminism was supposed to be about [ In fact, far from identifying as a prostitute, Greer was implying that the word 'whore' could be removed from its pejorative associations.
A term with similar status is the racially abusive 'nigger', which has been reclaimed or 'flipped' by African-Americans such as Richard Pryor's Superniggerand is used in this context as a term of Find Maynard. Jonathon Green suggests that this use "as a binding, unifying, positive word" dates from as early as the s Jennifer Higgie, Its reappropriation is not universally accepted, however: Spike Lee has criticised what he perceives as Samuel L Jackson's insensitivity towards the word's history.
Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead attempts to reclaim other racially abusive terms such as 'paki' notably the PAK1 clothing brand have been equally contentious: In his article A Bad Word Made GoodAndrew Clark notes the reappropriation of 'wog', formerly a term of racist abuse though later used self-referentially amongst Australia's Greek community: Greek[s] happily refer to themselves as wogs [ Furthermore, Todd Anten cites the increasing transvaluation of 'chink', noting that "Virtually any word that is or has been a slur can be reappropriated by the target group" Lenny Bruce made the point that the social suppression of taboo words such as 'cunt' and 'nigger' serves to perpetuate and increase their power: He argued that only through repetition can Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead remove the abusive powers of taboo words: Meet sex partners in Rockford Illinois film's director later explained that he was consciously attempting to "take everything that's negative in the language and turn it into a positive thing" Criterion, The editor of the Jewish magazine Heeb intended its title as a transvaluation of the term, a variant Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead 'hebe': Annie Goldflam self-identified as both a 'kike' and a 'dyke', in Queerer Than Queer: The Roberval bx fuck term 'queer' has also been positively - yet contentiously - reappropriated, for example by Queer Nation: Ratna Kapur and Tayyab Mahmud cite 'fruit' amongst other terms "appropriated by the gay community as words denoting pride, self-awareness, and self-acceptance" The gay-oriented cosmetics brand FAG: Fabulous And Gay has helped to reclaim 'fag', and Todd Anten cites the company's mission statement: Larry Kramer's book Faggots began the transvaluation of another homophobic term.
Another book title, Christopher Frayling's Spaghetti Westernswas also intended as a positive reappropriation of a negative term: The similar film term 'chop-socky' has also been "repurposed" David Kamp and Lawrence Levi, The various epithets used to insult mentally handicapped people represent a further lexicon of reclaimed pejoratives. Mark Radcliffe profiles "people with mental health problems tak[ing] the sting out of stigma by reclaiming pejoratives"citing 'Crazy Folks' and 'Mad Pride' as groups whose names "reclaim some of the stigmatising language".
This consciously humorous appropriation of 'crazy' and 'mad' must, Ladies looking real sex Newberry SouthCarolina 29108, avoid being misinterpreted as a trivialisation of those whom it seeks to empower. The term 'punk' has become associated with a musical genre, though it also has an insulting definition, as it is used to describe men who are raped by fellow prisoners in jail.
Robert Martin, who was repeatedly gang-raped in prison, has now spoken out against jail-rape while also celebrating the term 'punk': He has performed the same etymological magic trick that others have done with [ Finally, Women seeking real sex Rison should consider 'otaku', 'geek', and 'nerd', all of which are negative terms implying anti-social obsessive behaviour.
Increasingly, people are self-identifying as geeks, otakus, and nerds, using the terms proudly: The comedy film Revenge Of The Nerds celebrated the atypical victory of Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead against jocks in an American school. It is clear that "The conversion of a derogatory term into a battle cry by radicals is not uncommon" Hugh Rawson,though 'cunt' itself has yet to emerge as a fully reclaimed term.
Presently, the initial stages of its reappropriation are more contentious and complex than those of the epithets dicussed above. Todd Anten categorises slurs into two types, to Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead between words in different positions along the road to reclamation: He also notes that it is not only words that can be reclaimed: He cites as an example the pink triangle used by the Nazis to identify homosexuals: An especially intriguing aspect of reappropriation is that of trademark applications.
Aware that potentially disparaging words are denied trademark status, Todd Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead argues that such restrictions should be lifted for "self-disparaging" terms: He also cites Joe Garofoli's comment that "[S]elf-labeling defuses the impact of derisive terms by making them more commonplace". Anten notes trademark applications for various contentious terms, all intended to be reappropriated as positive acronyms: In the latter case, 'jap', Anten notes that the term "may disparage multiple groups": Reappropriation is indeed a minefield.
The marginalisation of the feminine is apparent not only in relation to language but also in cultural attitudes towards the sexual organs themselves. A large penis is equated with potency and sexual prowess: Phrases such as 'well hung' maintain the male obsession with penis size, and John Holmes became one of the world's most famous porn stars thanks to his fourteen-inch erection. Size and the female reproductive organs, however, have a reversed relationship: A large vagina is seen as indicative of copious copulation, prompting accusations of prostitution or nymphomania.
Or, as Germaine Greer puts it: No woman wants to find out that she has a twat like a horse-collar" [a]. Corrective surgery - namely a laser vaginal rejuvenation operation - is available in such circumstances, to make "the vaginal canal smaller and the opening of the vagina smaller" Nicola Black,whereas male genital surgery serves to enlarge the organ rather than reduce it.
Crude terms such as 'big cunt', 'bushel cunt', 'bucket cunt', 'bucket fanny', 'butcher's dustbin', 'spunk dustbin', 'bargain bucket', 'billposter's bucket', 'Big Daddy's sleeping bag', 'ragman's trumpet', 'ragman's coat', 'turkey's wattle', 'raggy blart', 'pound of liver', 'club sandwich', 'ripped sofa', 'badly-packed kebab', 'stamped bat', 'wizard's sleeve', 'clown's pocket', 'Yaris fanny', 'fanny like a easyjet seat pocket', 'a fanny like Sunderland's trophy cabinet', 'cow-cunt', 'double-cunted', 'sluice-cunted', and "canyon-cunted" Jim Goad, [b]equate dilation with repulsion: Thus, alongside the linguistic suppression of 'cunt', the vagina is also physically suppressed: The penis is an external organ whereas the vagina is an internal one, therefore the penis is naturally the more visible of the two; there is, however, a cultural emphasis placed upon this difference that acts to reinforce and extend it.
The bulging male groin 'lunchbox' is identified as sexually attractive, whereas Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead are encouraged not to emphasise their groins but to camouflage them: Phallic references and penis jokes litter daily discourse, whereas vulval imagery is seemingly limited to pornography" Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead Briscoe, The venerated male 'lunchbox' can be directly contrasted with the condemned female equivalent, the 'cameltoe'.
The female group Fannypack released a single called Cameltoe in which they criticised women for "grossin' people out with your cameltoe[s]" Similarly, the male codpiece's exaggeration of penile protrusion can be Lonely wives Chesapeake looking for woman on the side with female chastity belts that lock away the vagina.
Also, excessive female pubic hair the 'bikini line' is shaved to render the area indistinguishable from any other part of the body: Oliver Maitland contrasts artistic representations of the vagina with those of the penis: The physical differences between the male and female sexual organs are central to Sigmund Freud's theory of penis Do you have a need to be a secret slut. This is the notion that a girl perceives her clitoris to be the result of her castration, and, faced with what Freud terms an "inferiority"develops a desire for the visible, external symbols of virility possessed by men.Cullen LA Wife Swapping
Joan Smith answers this with the proposition that "it's time to start talking, pace Freud, about the terrible problems men have in overcoming their cunt envy"a timely riposte to Freudian phallocentricity. Germaine Greer's key feminist text is titled The Female Eunuchthough accusations of penis envy serve merely to trivialise the feminist feeling of Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead and linguistic marginalisation.
The 'female eunuch' is symbolic of the desexed representation of the female sexual experience, rather than representing a literal desire for a male organ.
Patriarchal marginalisation Gatesheaf not, therefore, a literal neutering of women, though it does generate this metaphorical effect; while the penis is exaggerated, the vagina is rendered subordinate.
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Male attempts to marginalise the vagina lexically, physically, and pictorially can be seen as symbolic attempts to suppress Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead sexuality. The myth of the vagina dentata discussed in more detail later is appropriate in this regard, as there are many mythological instances of toothed vaginas being blunted by male weapons: A Mimbres bowl drawn by Pat Carr from a Zuni Pueblo original depicts a man's club-like penis inside a vagina dentata to illustrate a myth involving two men who meet eight women with vagina dentatas: They have teeth in their vaginas.
They will cut you and you will die. When the oak members were worn out, they put them aside and took the hickory ones. By daylight the teeth of these women Private sex girl in New mexico all worn out" Pat Carr and Willard Gingerich, Symbolically, this male domination over female sexuality - using a tool to cut vaginal teeth - clearly represents the power of the phallus and the weakness of the vagina, or, in other words, the Magnolia mantra quoted above.
According to Pueblo mythology, the Ahaiyute would "break girls' toothed vaginas with false wooden penises" Marta Weigle, A Jicarilla Apache Indian myth describes four 'vagina girls' who swallow men with their vaginas, until a medicine administered by the male 'Killer-of-Enemies' neutralises their power: But this medicine destroyed their teeth entirely" Catherine Blackledge, In a similar example, "There was a Rakshasa's [demon's] daughter who had teeth in her vagina.
When she saw a man, she would turn into a pretty girl, seduce him, [and] cut off Clarksville tennessee adult dating penis" - the only way to neuter her was to "make an iron tube, put it into her vagina and break her teeth".
Pueblo Indian artwork depicts "efforts to remove a woman's vaginal teeth with a false penis made out of oak and hickory", and this ceremony is now Dinner and drinks date re-enacted: Provoked by the sudden intrusion, the demon responded by biting off the young man's pecker".
The woman's "cock-chomping beaver" Casual sex North las vegas female subdued by an iron dildo, an object Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead is still celebrated on the first Sunday of every April at the Kanamara Matsuri event in Kawasaki, Japan.
Our environment is becoming increasingly saturated Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead sexual images, justified by the maxim 'sex sells'. This situation, which Brian McNair terms "The sexualization of the public sphere"predominantly involves images of women, appealing to heterosexual male desires at the expense of heterosexual female ones.
Significantly, however, they represent a "tit-and-arse landscape" Barbara Ellen,with the breasts and buttocks over-exposed and the genital area airbrushed away. As Germaine Greer notes, these images are "poses which minimize the genital area" and "The vagina is obliterated from the imagery of femininity" [a]: Catherine Blackledge ascribes this prejudice to Christian misogyny: Albert Ellis explains that our culture's obsessive interest in breasts and buttocks and disinterest in the vagina is the Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead of subconscious displacement: Germaine Greer's explanation is more direct: She has actually incorporated a drawing of female ovaries into her signature, in a Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead attempt to increase their visual representation.
Germaine Greer's term 'womb-fear' highlights the underlying reason for both the cultural suppression of the vagina and the linguistic suppression of 'cunt'. At the heart of the abusive impact of 'cunt', and the paranoid marginalisation of the vagina, is the implication that the female genitals are disgusting and fearsome: Mark Morton describes the vagina as "a part of the female body that has traditionally been considered shameful or menacing" Andrea Dworkin writes despairingly of the "repulsion for women [ Indeed, such is the level of disgust with the "monstrous female genitals" that, as Eric Partridge notes, the abusive term 'cunt face' is "even more insulting than the synonymous shit face" - the vagina is regarded as even more disgusting than excrement.Granny Hotties Caney Oklahoma
The clinical sterility of tampon advertising, for example, paradoxically demonstrates a profound disgust for the vagina: In their paper Socio-Cultural Representations Of The VaginaVirginia Braun and Sue Wilkinson identify several seekinng negative representations of Single wives want nsa Traverse City vagina", dividing them into categories such as The Vagina As Disgusting "The vagina is often represented as part of the female body that is shameful, unclean, disgusting" and The Vagina As Dangerous "The Western construction of women's bodies as a source of horror, fear, and danger [ After many conversations with women, Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead Dodson reported that a great number of them viewed their own genitals in negative terms: This attitude is instilled during childhood, as David Delvin notes: Jane Ussher describes the cyclical process whereby childhood confusion leads to cultural phobia: In this way, social stereotypes which define women's genitals as unpleasant, [mal]odorous and unattractive, seekung internalized by the female child" Judith Seifer suggests that the prejudice is actively instilled at a very early Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead Even a scientific programme on the Discovery Channel demonstrates cultural womb-fear: The reductive usage of 'cunt' as a term of unparalleled abuse reflects both a fear of the vagina and a misogynist hatred of it.
This seeming manifests itself in ingrained cultural representations of Gafeshead vagina as an abject organ: The t-shirt slogan 'salty yoni sweet dick' unfavourably contrasts the tastes of the vagina and penis. The slang terms 'site box', 'fanny like a rabid dog', 'gorilla's armpit' and, especially, 'gorilla autopsy', present the vagina as an abject organ.
The slang phrase 'smells like Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead pile of dead fannies' is used as Gageshead simile for something malodorous, and the barrack-room ballad The Ballad Of Lupe also known as Down In Cunt Valley is equally unpleasant in its imagery:. Also, compare this monologue by Jim Goad, from his morally ambiguous and provocative zine Answer Me!
Filthy fucking cunt, rotten diseased fucking cunt". The issue of Answer Me! It was felt that many of the articles in Goad's zine condoned and even encouraged the rape Xxx housewives dating sites women.
More poetic than Answer Me! But Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead the sxey do the Gods inherit, Beneath is seekiny the fiends': There's hell, there's darkness, there is the sulphurous pit, Burning, scalding" William Shakespeare, The Dread Of The Vagina In "King Lear"Peter L Rudnytsky notes the bifurcation of the hof body Gatesnead described in Learwith "the human or divine region above and the bestial or Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead below" He also, perhaps less Gatesshead, finds further lades references to the vagina in the play, including "the female genitals as a place of [ Furthermore, he cites a play by George Wilkins, apparently inspired by Learin which another scholar has detected a genital allusion: Wilkins's line "in hope shee can open her teeth"inspired by Shakespeare's "face between her Forkes" from Learhas been interpreted by Frank Whigham as a vaginal reference "vagina dentata, the fiendish face between her forks", John Weir divides attitudes towards the vagina pegite two opposing viewpoints: It is the former of Weir's two categories that is reflected in slang terms such as 'nasty', 'stink', 'stinkhole', 'stench trench', 'smelly cunt', 'smelly pussy', 'slime hole', 'smell-hole', 'stinky cunt', 'stink-pit', 'something White boy wants his first black girl in and died', 'dirty cunt', 'rotten crotch', and 'scabby cunt'.
These words and phrases all equate the vagina with filth and dirt: One of the interviewees in Shere Hite's sex survey described how her male partner "thinks the vulva area smells ghastly", and Any hot sexy petite ladies seeking Gateshead Maitland even cites a female comment that vaginas are "Dirty, smelly things" Boyd Rice cites a quotation usually attributed to the Latin writer Tertullian which defines 'woman' as "a temple A scene in the film The Shawshank Redemptionin which a man emerges from a sewage pipe, has been interpreted as a metaphorical rebirth, with the sewage pipe symbolising petits birth canal: In On Mrs WillisJohn Wilmot wrote of the eponymous prostitute that "her cunt [is] a common shore" It is this viewpoint that seemingly ladiex many traditional limericks, drawing their imagery from "[the] filth seejing there, between the legs, in the hole" Boyd Rice, Comic strips such as It's Jemima And Her Smelly Vagina in Gutterand Dirty Annie And Her Smelly Fanny in The Troutposition the vagina as an organ of abjection, an attitude exemplified by the slang phrase 'Billingsgate box', which compares the vagina's odour with that of a fishmarket.
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This long-standing belief, that "the vagina resembles a fish because like a fish it stinks", is the commonest example of what was described in as the "historical cultural connection Gatesheav women's genitals and filth and disease" Celia Roberts, Susan Kippax, Mary Spongberg, laies June Crawford.
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